Getting An Ex-Girlfriend Back From Her New Guy

Let’s start off by assuming that most of you are reading this now because you want to know how to get your ex girlfriend back. You wouldn’t be on this website if you’re not, right? Armed with all the knowledge and information gleamed from this site, you have finally come up with a plan to get your ex girlfriend back. However, you’ve just been dealt a major blow. You have just found out that she has a new boyfriend.

It’s over.

Or is it?

Think back to your basic understanding of women and attraction. Think about the kind of guys that repel them the most. Yes, you’re right. It’s the insecure and needy type of guys. However, what has this got to do with the current situation? Your ex girlfriend’s new squeeze is obviously the alpha male of the group. He’s smart, humorous, decisive, interesting, everything a girl wants in a guy. That’s why we’re going to use a technique called Boyfriend Destroying right now. All credit goes to the master PUAs hanging around in the little known corners of the internet, teaching Game to people who need it.

Boyfriend Destroying basically focuses around the main point of reframing every single action the guy makes to be a display of insecurity or neediness. It doesn’t matter how alpha his behavior is. With the right twist on things, you can easily reframe it to be a sign of weakness.

Does he make her feel that she loves him more than vice versa? Does he only reward the girl after she has earned it? Does he not blatantly show weakness by showering her with gifts every day? Such behavior attracts women but they do not know it. Simply tell your ex-girlfriend that he does these things because he is lost and confused right now. He loves her so much that he does not know exactly how to show it. She is everything to him. He knows that if he loses her, he will never find anyone quite like her again. He wants her and needs her very badly. He cannot live without her.

Reframe his every action to be a sign of neediness or insecurity. At the same time, show her how decisive you are about things and that you don’t need her to live a life of fun and enjoyment. She is welcome to join your reality if she so chooses, but she probably has to pass your tests first. Always put yourself in the position of power.

Done right, Boyfriend Destroyers can really turn the tide and pull your ex girlfriend back to you. However, do bear in mind that these write-ups are meant to be short and concise, which means that many points are not elaborated upon. Do this wrong and you might end up causing yourself more harm than good. Learn about the basic principles and concepts behind attracting a woman. You can start by checking out Double Your Dating By David DeAngelo. Stick true to them and base your actions around it. You will soon start to see that everything flows and who knows, you might even have your ex-girlfriend back in your arms again in no time.